HAVING A LOVED ONE CRITICALLY ILL IN INTENSIVE CARE, WHY YOUR RESOLVE MATTERS!

Published: Mon, 11/02/15

Hi, it’s Patrik Hutzel from INTENSIVECAREHOTLINE.COM  , where we instantly improve the lives of Families of critically ill Patients in Intensive Care, so that you can have PEACE OF MIND, real power, real control and so that you can influence decision making fast, even if you’re not a doctor or a nurse in Intensive Care!


In last week’s PODCAST  I’ve published an interview with Charlie Atkinson, who overcame numerous challenges as a long-term Intensive Care Patient, survived against all odds and also helped his daughter- in- law to manage her ICU stay!


INTERVIEW WITH CHARLIE ATKINSON WHO WAS A PATIENT IN ICU& LTAC FOR MORE THAN 12 MONTHS AND SURVIVED AGAINST THE ODDS! LISTEN TO CHARLIE’S INSPIRATIONAL STORY!


You can check out the Interview with Charlie here.


In this week’s BLOG I want to talk to you about


HAVING A LOVED ONE CRITICALLY ILL IN INTENSIVE CARE, WHY YOUR RESOLVE MATTERS!


Before I get into today’s topic I want to share a quote with you that I wrote on today’s topic and the quote says


“Resolve matters! You always need to know and focus on your outcomes and goals when your loved one is critically ill in Intensive Care. Most families of critically ill Patients in Intensive Care get too carried away by their emotions instead of focusing on what they can control!


Having resolve is an attribute and a quality you can control, if you are determined and persistent!


Most families of critically ill Patients in Intensive Care start projecting their fantasy on what they want on to the Intensive Care team, while ignoring the reality.


This reality is often a harsh reality, once families realize that the Intensive Care team more often than not have their own hidden agendas!


This leads to tremendous suffering down the road and painful experiences once families of critically ill Patients in Intensive Care realize they do not share the same goals and values as the Intensive Care team who they initially trusted blindly!


As hard as it can be sometimes, you MUST see the Intensive Care team and your critically ill loved one’s circumstances for who and what they really are, instead of better than they are, in order to make smart choices and the right decisions.”


99% of the families of critically ill Patients in Intensive Care will never have PEACE OF MIND, control, power and influence!


Those 99% of families of critically ill Patients in Intensive Care have also consciously or unconsciously chosen to give away any power that they may have had in the first place to the Intensive Care team, by consciously or unconsciously seeking approval!


Big mistake! The thought that they can have PEACE OF MIND, control, power and influence has never and will never cross their mind!


The thought that they can have PEACE OF MIND, control, power and influence quickly is not even remotely on their radar!


Thankfully you have come to this website and given that you are now immersing yourself into this blog post and into some of my other free and paid resources, you have probably realised by now that not getting the outcomes that you want for your critically ill loved one is not an option!


You have probably realised that there are many things that you can control, whilst your loved one is critically ill in Intensive Care!


One of the things you can control is obviously your resolve to get what you want and to get PEACE OF MIND, control, power and influence quickly!


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The 99% of families of critically ill Patients in Intensive Care have again, given up the minute they entered the Intensive Care Unit and the minute they started seeking approval to the Intensive Care!


You know by now that you are different and you know by now that it’s a matter of your resolve, your determination, your negotiation skills and by you standing out from the crowd in order to get what you want and get PEACE OF MIND, control, power and influence quickly!


You know by now, that just simply being on this website, by being a subscriber to my regular updates and by simply consuming some of my free and paid resources, you are on your way to master this “ONCE IN A LIFETIME” challenge, that you know you can’t afford to get wrong!


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Your resolve “to do whatever it takes” is what carries you through this massive challenge when your loved one is critically ill in Intensive Care!


Now, I can give you numerous examples, that I encountered during more than 15 years Intensive Care nursing in three different countries- where I literally worked with thousands of critically ill Patients and their families- and where I also worked for more than 5 years as a Nurse Unit Manager in Intensive Care, where the only thing that “saved” families in Intensive Care and their critically ill loved one, was their resolve, their determination and their persistence “to do whatever it takes” to get PEACE OF MIND, control, power and influence!


When families of critically ill Patients in Intensive Care approach me to get 1:1 consulting via Skype or over the phone, the one quality that they often all have in common is that they have the resolve to get PEACE OF MIND, control, power and influence quickly, no matter what!


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ONE on ONE consulting with Patrik


So no matter how difficult, challenging or heartbreaking your, your family’s and your critically ill loved one’s situation may appear on the outset and even if- even if- your critically ill loved one is in a situation where they are either

  • very unstable and in a very critical condition

 

no matter how much “doom and gloom” and how much negativity the Intensive Care team has given you about those situations, know that your resolve and your determination matters and is often more important than anything else!


You don’t need to buy into the negativity of the Intensive Care team and you don’t need to listen to the “doom and gloom” of the Intensive Care team!


By now, you may know that there are way too many things happening “BEHIND THE SCENES” in Intensive Care that hold you back from PEACE OF MIND, control, power and influence!


And by now, you know that often the positioning of your critically ill loved one’s diagnosis, prognosis and the treatment they have been offered or not offered is a direct result of what’s happening “BEHIND THE SCENES” in Intensive Care, that only insiders know!


Your resolve is what matters and it’s often the only thing you can control!


Mix your resolve with my expertise and you have a powerful recipe to get PEACE OF MIND, control, power and influence quickly!

Your friend

Patrik Hutzel


Skype ID patrik.hutzel

phone 415- 915-0090 in the USA/Canada

phone 03- 8658 2138 in Australia/ New Zealand

phone 0118 324 3018 in the UK/Ireland



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Your Friend


Patrik Hutzel

Critical Care Nurse

Founder& Editor

WWW.INTENSIVECAREHOTLINE.COM