Hi, it’s Patrik Hutzel from INTENSIVECAREHOTLINE.COM , where
we INSTANTLY improve the lives of Families of critically ill Patients in Intensive Care, so that you can have PEACE OF MIND, real power, real control and so that you can influence decision making FAST, even if you’re not a doctor or a nurse in Intensive Care!
In last week’s blog I showed you
“HOW TO DEAL WITH A DIFFICULT INTENSIVE CARE TEAM, WHEN YOUR LOVED ONE IS CRITICALLY ILL IN INTENSIVE CARE!”
You can check out last week’s BLOG by clicking on the link here.
In this week’s BLOG I want to share with you
”5 POWERFUL THINGS YOU NEED TO DO IF THE INTENSIVE CARE TEAM IS NEGATIVE WHEN YOUR LOVED ONE
IS CRITICALLY ILL IN INTENSIVE CARE!"
If your loved one is critically ill in Intensive Care, chances are high that you are experiencing an overtly
negative Intensive Care team!
It’s bad enough that you, your family and your critically ill loved one are way outside of your comfort zone!
And even worse, you and your family feel the stress, the fear, the frustrations, the anxiety and the vulnerability when you’re having a loved one critically ill in Intensive Care!
There just isn’t enough support for Families of critically ill Patients in Intensive Care!
On top of that Intensive Care teams tend to be very quick in painting “doom and gloom” pictures and they are very quick in pointing out the negatives rather than the positives!
And they do this for a number of reasons, whether it be to protect their professional reputation, whether it be to keep your expectations low and therefore make it easier for them to “manage” you and your family and put you in your place!
And I can assure you that after more than 15 years Intensive Care nursing in 3 different countries I have seen my fare share of negative Intensive Care teams and their approaches in “managing” families of
critically ill Patients in Intensive Care, in order to get what they want!
Their approaches in “managing” families of critically ill Patients in Intensive Care
may start at being overtly negative and keeping your and your family’s expectations and hopes low, but they don’t stop there.
What you and your family need in a
situation where your critically ill loved one is either
- very unstable and in a very critical condition
- in a life threatening situation
is not negativity and “doom and gloom” pictures, painted by the “all powerful” Intensive Care team.
What you and your family need instead is to regain PEACE OF MIND, regain power, regain control and regain influence fast!
And if you are like 99% of families of critically ill Patients in Intensive Care you will never have PEACE OF MIND, control, power and influence, because you just sit at the sidelines and watch things passively go by.
You put all your trust and “blind faith” in the “perceived power” and the “perceived authority” of the Intensive Care team!
Thankfully you have come to the right place!
And I know that because you are reading this that you don’t belong to the 99% of Families of critically ill Patients in Intensive Care who don’t have PEACE OF MIND, control, power and influence!
I know that you’ve already sensed that “what you see is not always what you get in Intensive Care” and therefore you want to know more!
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How to make sure that "what you see is always what you get" whilst your loved one is critically ill in Intensive Care
You have already decided that you will be able to overcome the negativity of the Intensive Care team and that you will be able to have PEACE OF MIND, control, power and influence, no matter what!
In order to help you on this journey lets therefore look at the
”5 POWERFUL THINGS YOU NEED TO DO IF THE INTENSIVE CARE TEAM IS NEGATIVE WHEN YOUR LOVED ONE IS CRITICALLY ILL IN INTENSIVE CARE!"
- Do your own research instead of trusting the Intensive Care team blindly!
Doing your own research pays dividends, because you won’t be held hostage by the Intensive Care team! You’d be surprised how much you can quickly learn about your critically ill loved one’s situation and about Intensive Care if you start looking at the right resources at INTENSIVECARE HOTLINE.COM !
- Look “BEHIND THE SCENES” and discover what’s really happening in Intensive Care
The moving parts in Intensive Care that only insiders know about have a massive
impact on how the Intensive Care team positions your critically ill loved one’s prognosis and diagnosis!
The moving parts in Intensive Care or what’s
happening “BEHIND THE SCENES” in Intensive Care are far more powerful than you have ever imagined.
The fact of the matter is that if you don’t get a quick and deep understanding of the things that are happening “BEHIND THE SCENES” in Intensive Care, the Intensive Care team will stay negative and they will keep you and your
family at “arm’s length” with their negative positioning that you can’t challenge because you don’t really understand what’s happening “BEHIND THE SCENES” in Intensive Care!
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- Start asking difficult questions and become a master of your own destiny!
99% of Families of critically ill Patients in Intensive Care are intimidated by the “perceived power” and the ”perceived authority” of the Intensive Care team! Those families will never have PEACE OF MIND, control, power and influence, let alone be a master of their own destiny!
The most powerful and influential Families of critically ill Patients in Intensive Care that I have seen in more than 15 years Intensive Care nursing in 3 different countries, where I also spent 5 years as a Nurse Unit Manager in Intensive Care,
have all taken a very different approach!
The very few powerful and influential Families of critically ill Patients in Intensive Care all have one thing in
common.
They start asking difficult questions, they look reality in the eye and they have the unshakable believe that they can be a master of their
own destiny, no matter the circumstances or the odds they are facing!
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The good news is that those families will not let other people
dictate them what to believe or not to believe or how they should conduct themselves!
They are proactive and they won’t have anything stand in their way of success!
- Don’t take “NO” for an answer and start “managing” the Intensive Care team
If you are dealing with a negative Intensive Care team, you need to do the complete opposite of what the 99% of families of critically ill Patients in Intensive Care do who have no PEACE OF MIND, no control, no power and no influence!
Instead you need to start questioning the very negativity of the Intensive Care team, you need to start pro-actively manage the Intensive Care team and you need to stop taking “NO” for an answer!
You and your family need to quickly find some proven strategies in how you can start managing the Intensive Care team so that you will have PEACE OF MIND, control, power and influence, no matter what!
Most Families of critically ill Patients in Intensive Care lack the tools and the belief system so that they can start managing the Intensive Care team before they start managing you!
Here at INTENSIVECAREHOTLINE.COM we have a wide array of tools and proven strategies in how you can start manage the Intensive Care team, counteract their negativity and
get PEACE OF MIND, control, power and influence quickly!
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- Change your body language and your tone of voice!
If there is one secret to getting PEACE OF MIND, control,
power and influence really quickly whilst your loved one is critically ill in Intensive Care, it’s to change your body language and your tone of voice!
What do
I mean by that?
The 99% of families of critically ill Patients in Intensive Care who have no PEACE OF MIND, no control, no power and no
influence have it on display by their negative body language and by their weak and hesitant tone of voice!
Instead of showing with your poor body language, poor
posture and your weak and hesitant tone of voice that you have succumbed to the negativity of the Intensive Care team, you need to start taking control of both, your body language and your tone of voice!
Instead of walking around with a closed body by having your arms crossed, your shoulders slumped, your back hunched, by avoiding strong eye contact, by having a weak handshake and by having a weak and hesitant voice, you need to start taking control of both your body language and your tone of voice!
Instead, uncross your arms, put out your shoulders, straighten your back, make strong eye contact, have a strong handshake and speak clearly and articulate very clearly in no uncertain terms what you want with a strong voice!
Do just that and the Intensive Care team will notice that they are dealing with a powerful and influential family who is prepared to fight the negativity of the Intensive Care team!
Try this at your own risk and you will see the results!
Your friend
Patrik Hutzel
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