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Quick Tip for Families in Intensive Care: My 80-Year-Old Sister is in Palliative Care for Pneumonia in ICU After Only 3 Days & It Seems Wrong!
Hi, it’s Patrik Hutzel from intensivecarehotline.com with another quick tip for families in intensive care.
Today, I’ve got an email from Steven who says,
“Hi Patrik,
My sister is 80 years of age. She’s in intensive care with the pneumonia and they want to palliate her after only 3 days in ICU and it seems wrong. Can you help?” Well, Steven, I agree with you wholeheartedly that after three days in ICU, no one should be moved to palliative care.
It doesn’t sound to me like your
sister even had a fair chance to fight the pneumonia. It also doesn’t sound to me like your sister has been spoken to in terms of what she wants. It also sounds to me like your family has been spoken to in terms of what they want. It sounds to me like ICU seems to coerce
you.
I’m not surprised knowing that you are in the U.K. There are horror stories coming from the U.K., and the NHS and we’ve had many clients over the years where the NHS is literally trying to kill people and I’m not making any excuses saying that because we’ve been dealing with it firsthand here at intensivecarehotline.com. I think it is atrocious and people need to speak up in
the U.K. in ICU doctors and nurses as well for what is happening there.
But irregardless of that, if you want to save your sister from going into palliative care after only three days in ICU, you should get a second opinion as a matter of urgency. We can look at the medical records and see whether they’re doing all the right things or whether they just want to wind down treatment and let her die. That seems very wrong.
Also, you have to distinguish between what is a “real end of life” situation and a “perceived end of life” situation. I have written about this extensively and made videos about it that a real end of life situation, for
example, is that when someone is in intensive care, that no fancy treatment, no fancy medications, no surgery, no medications, no equipment can save someone’s life. That is a real end of life situation.
Now, if your sister has pneumonia and is in ICU, there’s nothing else and ICU wants to move her to palliative care and let her die. Well, that is a perceived end of life situation because the
pneumonia can be cured with the right efforts.
I wouldn’t be surprised if the ICU told you or your sister and your sister’s family or other family, “Oh, if she will survive, she’s not going to have any quality of life.” Well, what does that even mean quality of life? Quality of life is subjective. It’s not up to intensive care teams to decide what’s going to happen after ICU survival. ICUs are there
to treat critical illness, acute critical illness and then families and patients can decide what they want from there.
So, I go as far as that, if your sister is being moved to palliative care, I go as far as that could be perceived as euthanasia because if she’s moved to palliative care, has the ventilator removed and potentially ends up with benzodiazepine drips and opiate drips, that could hasten death.
When you look up the definition in Wikipedia or online, what is the definition of euthanasia? It is to hasten death. Also, euthanasia in the U.K. and in most other Western countries is illegal. So, they are potentially conducting something illegal here that you can stop with our consulting and advocacy full stop and save many lives as part of our consulting and advocacy.
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I have worked in critical care for nearly 25 years in three different countries where I also worked as a nurse manager for over 5 years. Like I said, we’ve been consulting and advocating for families in intensive care since 2013 here at intensivecarehotline.com. Like I said, we’ve been saving many lives since then and that is documented on our testimony section and on our podcast section at intensivecarehotline.com.
When I worked in ICU hands on, I always felt that many, many patients are being moved to palliative care prematurely, too early, which
has led me to this work because I believe in the advocacy for patients and for families in intensive care. I am very pro-life, and I am a big believer that patients and families need to make their own decisions that is not driven by ICU politics, by ICU finances, by ICU bed management, and so forth.
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Take care for now.
