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Quick Tip for Families in Intensive Care: Why is My Sister Not Waking Up After an Induced Coma & ICU Doctors Pressuring Me to Consent to DNR (Do Not Resuscitate)?
 

Hi, it’s Patrik Hutzel from intensivecarehotline.com with another quick tip for families in intensive care.

So today’s tip is a question from Anna who says,

Hi Patrik,

I don’t understand why my sister is not waking up after an induced coma. I’m also very fearful of ICU doctors pressuring me to consent to no resuscitation for my sister. Can you help me?

Okay, great. Great question Anna. And I’m very sorry to hear what you’re going through here.

Now, you haven’t shared why your sister is going to ICU and why are people not waking up after you come up? There could be a number of things. It could be simply that they are over-sedated.  And they have too many sedatives, too many opiates. Opiates are strong painkillers such as morphine or fentanyl. It also depends on whether she’s in kidney failure or liver failure because then there could also be a delay in metabolizing sedatives and opiates and they stay in the body for much longer. Same with kidney failure, sedatives, and opiates stay in the body for much longer, delaying patients waking up.

A lot of it also depends on what sedatives has your sister had. Was she on propofol? Propofol is short-acting. I.e. most patients wake up quickly after propofol has been discontinued. Someone has been on high doses of midazolam or Versed that means there could be a delay in waking up as well because they’re long-acting. It’s a long-acting sedative. Now, other patients are on Precedex or dexmedetomidine for sedation and they should wake up quicker as well. But some patients may also have had a combination of all of it.

Now, if she’s not waking up, then the next step is, has she had a brain injury? Has she had a stroke? Or did she even get into ICU because of her brain injury? You haven’t shared that. Either way, has a CT (Computed Tomography) scan of the brain been done or an MRI (Magnetic Resonance Imaging) scan of the brain been done? Has a neurologist been consulted on the matter? Has an EEG (Electroencephalography) been done. Is she getting good nursing care? Is she getting mobilized? Is she getting out of bed? Is she sitting up? Is she getting good washes? Is she getting turned regularly? Those are all questions that are important for you to contemplate.

If sedatives have been off for a few days, she’s not waking up, she’s not in kidney failure, she’s not in liver failure, she doesn’t have a brain injury as far as you know, the next step is she needs to have a brain scan, MRI scan, or a CT scan of the brain or an EEG.

If she doesn’t have a stroke or any other neurological event and she’s still not waking up, maybe they can give an antidote to the sedatives and the opiates to help her wake up. For example, if she had too many opiates, then they could give naloxone as an antidote and see whether she’s waking up from that. If she’s had too much Versed or midazolam, maybe flumazenil can be given as an antidote and see whether she’s waking up. So there are ways to go about it.

But also importantly, make sure she’s getting good nursing care, she’s getting stimulation, she’s getting turned regularly, getting good bed washes, getting good skincare, mouth care, sitting up, ideally get out of bed or at least be sitting on the edge of the bed. Very important, all of it in combination to help your sister wake up.

Now, the other question that you’ve had is fear of ICU doctors pressuring you to consent to a DNR (Do  Not Resuscitate) or no resuscitation order. Well, here is the thing Anna, that’s just your fear. You can’t be pressured by anyone. It’s your response. You can choose to ignore the pressure. So that is a choice that you’re making.

You are well aware if you’ve watched any of my videos here, you’re well aware that no one can force you to give consent to DNR (Do Not Resuscitate). No one. It’s your choice. Assuming you are the power of attorney, it’s your choice and your choice only. So the fear is just your feeling and you can control your feeling. You just decide not to react to the pressure, you just stand firm, you just stand your ground. You don’t even engage on that level with intensive care teams because you don’t have to.

So don’t give in to the perceived pressure and control your feeling, control your thinking, control how you reacted. You can’t control other people, but you will need to take 100% responsibility for how you react and you just choose not to react. It’s as simple as that. It’s not more complicated than that.

So I hope that helps and answers your questions, Anna.

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